6 Legit Steps to a Perfect Self-Care Routine

Include these 6 simple and legit self-care rituals in your daily routine to boost your productivity and get your life together.



“Self-care is a broad term that encompasses just about anything you to do be good to yourself. In a nutshell, it’s about being as kind to yourself as you would be to others. It’s partly about knowing when your resources are running low, and stepping back to replenish them rather than letting them all drain away.”

~ The Law Of Attraction.



Life can be so overwhelming at times, right? You’ll understand this better if you have kids, haha. Kids are so active all the time, they won’t let us take rest for a few minutes, and if by any chance, they do give us some time off, we are either busy with house chores or staring at the phone screen that we don’t even realize that we are neglecting ourselves.

You need to love and take care of yourself, every day, especially if you are a mom and take care of a kid or two, even if you are a student or a teacher or a person who works full or part-time. EVERYONE NEEDS LOVE, CARE AND ATTENTION and the person who needs it the most is yourself.


“Nourishing yourself in a way that helps you blossom in the direction you want to go is attainable, and you are worth the effort.”

~Deborah Day

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You should reward and treat yourself every now and then & that is where self-care or self-love routines come in. I highly recommend having a self-care routine to follow every day or every other day because

a) It will make you feel really good.

b) You will develop a beautiful connection with yourself and will highly appreciate yourself.



For practicing self-love and care you have to detox your life. Remove all the negativity and negative people from your life. You don’t need that. All you need and deserve is love, care, and positive vibes. They’ll keep you going and moving forward.

Do take some time off of your work and kids and dedicate that time to yourself, enjoy those moments. And do it daily.


“Self-compassion is simply giving the same kindness to ourselves that we would give to others.”

~Christopher Germer


Have a self-care routine, both physical (body, skin & hair) and internal (heart, mind & soul), write it down in your journal, diary or even in your Notes (app on your phone).

It will remind you to take care of yourself and not let life take over you. Have a routine and stick to it. It’ll help a lot.



You go to work, you have a family to look after, and you have kids who are running around creating the mess all the time which you have to take care of, eventually and you have a ton of chores piling up at home. You get caught up in events, guests, social media, meetings and a lot of other things. To make room for all of this stuff, you skip lunch, stop going to the gym, and forget about your social life entirely. When we’re stressed, self-care is usually the first thing to go.


1. You deserve it.
2. You’ll appreciate yourself a lot.
3. You’ll feel so much more productive afterward.
4. You’ll feel better and relaxed.
5. Enhanced self-esteem and improved self-knowledge.
6. Why not?

Who doesn’t like a chocolate and a long hot bath every once in a while? Self-care is all about treating yourself after all that you do. It’s a way of bringing the positivity back in your body, mind, and soul.

Make sure to treat and reward yourself every now and then. Eventually, it will make a huge difference in your entire routine. Trust me, loves!

“I have to believe that caring for me is not self-indulgent. Caring for me is an act of survival.”


Be your own best friend and show yourself a ton of love!

You are always focused on goals, meetings, deadlines and excessive expectations of people around you; that you rarely take care of yourself. It’s easy to neglect to take care of ourselves because when we’re busy and overwhelmed, even a small reprieve feels like a luxury. So actually taking time to eat lunch, exercise, and hang out with friends? That just feels like slacking.



Here I have a few ways of how you can take care of yourself even on the busiest days, with a very little time. These small steps will make a huge impact on your life and you’ll be more than happy that you did it.

So let’s begin.



First of all, did you drink enough water today? You should drink at least 2 to 3 liters of water every day. It will boost your metabolism. It’s going to make your skin better and will certainly make you feel fresh and active.

Take a sip; it’s going to benefit you more than you think. Get up in the morning and before doing anything, drink a tall glass of water, every day.

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Related article: 15 Simple and Proven Steps to a Super Productive Day

If not water, try either green tea or lemon water.



Stay clean, stay fresh, and stay focused.

Take a shower, wear clean clothes, brush and floss two times a day, wash and scrub your face, wash your lady cave and your feet.

Wearing nice clothes, making a casual hairstyle, using body butter and a daily makeup routine makes my mood 80% better.

Apply face mask, scrub and exfoliate your face, apply a moisturizer. Give your skin the glow it deserves.

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Feel light and comfortable!



Have you moved around today?

Get up! Do some exercise or stretches. Put on your favorite song and start dancing. You can do some yoga or Zumba if you prefer.

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Head out and go for a run. This one can literally boost your mood. Have fun!

Reduce your stress!


4. REST:

Catch every sleep you possibly can. Take power naps, they will help you a lot.

Drink a cup of chamomile tea, turn on a few candles, do some bed-time yoga and get ready to sleep.
You’re going to feel better and do better.

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Stay and feel fresh!



Recognize your hard work! Don’t save special items for ‘special occasions’. Make the occasion ‘special’.

Brighten up your mood!

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A few ways you can reward yourself are

* having a few extra hours of sleep.

* Make yourself some brownies.

* Order a large pizza with extra cheese and olives.

* Have a large cup of coffee.

* Buy yourself that cute top you adore.

* Watch your favorite TV show and have a good laugh.

* Talk to a friend and have some fun chit-chat.

* Getting lost in a good book can also help release your stress.

* Adult coloring books can help with mental issues like depression or anxiety.

* Make one small change to your diet for the week.

* Drink an extra glass of water each day, or have an extra portion of veggies each meal.

* Have a Bucket List and try to achieve as much as you can!

Related article: Realistic Bucket List 2018



Meet some friends, have a drink, do some Netflix and chill, get a massage or go shopping or have a date night with your loved one (or yourself). Choose your way to refresh yourself.

Related article: Ultimate Guide to Fun & Affordable Date Night At Home

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It’s okay to take a ‘me’ day, to be better ‘you’.


“Each time a woman stands up for herself, without knowing it possibly, without claiming it, she stands up for all women.”

~ Maya Angelou


Related article: 50 Fun & Budget-Friendly Thing To Do in 2018 

Recommended product: A little book of Self-Care

The conclusion is to take as much care of yourself as possible because it is crucial to keep you running and motivated.

I hope my tips on self-care helped you develop your own routine and style. It’s all up to you, how you treat and reward yourself, so do your best and enjoy! Make time for yourself, spend some time alone, have some relaxing time, pray more, worry less and take things lightly.

When you take good care of yourself, your body, mind, and soul tell you that you are doing something good. They feel better, and hence you feel better eventually. It’s important for you to stay on track and for that you need to track yourself.

Do you have a self-care routine? Do let me know what you do to make yourself feel better? Leave your comments, ideas, and suggestions. It’d mean so much to me. I absolutely love hearing from you guys. xoxo

^ Legit and simple steps to a perfect self-care routine

What am I missing here? Let me know in the comments and I’ll add it in!

Loads of love to everyone, especially the moms who are working full time and still taking care of their home, family, kids, and their loved ones! You are all doing great and you deserve the best! xoxo



e agora, Isadora


Related articles: 

Realistic Bucket List 2018

15 Simple and Proven Steps to a Super Productive Day

50 Fun & Budget-Friendly Thing To Do in 2018

Ultimate Guide to Fun & Affordable Date Night At Home



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  1. TeacupsandLipsticks

    July 8, 2018 at 10:07 am

    I agree with your points so much. Love them! And I admit I sometimes forget to take care of myself. Nd your points are a great motivation and reminder that I should indulge in self-care more. Thanks for sharing!

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 9, 2018 at 5:37 am

      Hi dear!

      First of all, thank you so much for stopping by and reading the post. I highly appreciate that.
      Secondly, you’re right you should definitely spare some time for yourself, it will keep you fresh, active, motivated and happy.
      Thanks a lot, once again. xoxo

  2. Ashleigh

    July 8, 2018 at 12:56 pm

    I really love this post! It’s so informative and laid out in a way that’s easy to read and not remotely stressful with all the “you should be’s”. We really underestimate the power of hydration as self-care! Such a great post. Thanks for sharing!

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 9, 2018 at 5:42 am

      Hey love!

      I’m glad you liked it. I always try to lay out content in such a way that it’s easier to read and understand. Thanks for the acknowledgment! <3 🙂
      Hydration, in my point of view, is number one when it comes to self-care. Although, at times I totally forget to drink water at all, normally I try to take this as seriously as possible.
      Thanks for taking the time to read and comment. It means a lot! God bless!

  3. Kristy

    July 10, 2018 at 12:45 am

    Great article loved it!

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 10, 2018 at 3:56 am

      Thank you! I appreciate it. xoxo

  4. Thea

    July 10, 2018 at 2:53 am

    “All you need and deserve is love, care, and positive vibes.” AMEN!
    I really love this post! Being a single mother who works two jobs, it’s easy to forget to take care of myself. But you’re right, in order to stay motivated self-care is important. Thank you for your advice!

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 10, 2018 at 3:58 am

      Awww, I’m right here if you need any assistance. You definitely should take some ‘me’ time and relax. And I can understand the hassle of handling two jobs and kids along with home and social life. It’s just so overwhelming. I deeply appreciate whatever you do for your family. God bless! xoxo

  5. Van Cast

    July 10, 2018 at 6:50 am

    This is such an important post! I love it. Pinned to my Pinterest ♥

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 10, 2018 at 10:29 pm

      Awww, thank you so much, love! It really means a lot! God bless. xoxo

  6. milan

    July 10, 2018 at 6:52 am

    loved the post. i have recently started yoga n trust me the positive effects are already showing. I remain motivated, energetic , basically feel good about myself throughout the day.

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 10, 2018 at 10:29 pm

      You are absolutely correct. Even I started yoga before my baby was born and I could literally see the positive results and I know why my baby is so happy and smiling all the time! 😀
      Thanks for stopping bY! God bless.

  7. Michelle

    July 10, 2018 at 7:06 am

    This was great to read! I would a LOVE to get more sleep…if the kids would let me haha. Thank you for this great tips 🙂

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 10, 2018 at 10:28 pm

      Same here. MY daughter wouldn’t let me sleep but I try to get a few minutes nap here and there and it helps.
      You are always welcome, love! 🙂

  8. Zoe

    July 10, 2018 at 7:13 am

    Such a great read. So true and so easy to do!

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 10, 2018 at 10:27 pm

      Thanks a lot for reading and commenting! 🙂 <3

  9. Namrata Sinha

    July 10, 2018 at 10:54 am

    Self-care is very important. There are times when we forget that self-care is necessary for everyone’s life. Thanks for highlighting all the points.

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 10, 2018 at 10:26 pm

      Thank you so much for reading and commenting. So true. It’s really important to take care of yourself before anything else. 🙂 God bless.

  10. Tif

    July 10, 2018 at 11:21 am

    This is just what I needed. Running a little thin this week and neglecting myself, self care always comes last but i need to make it first!

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 10, 2018 at 10:25 pm

      Make sure you take care of yourself before doing ANYTHING ELSE! Because nothing is more important than YOU! Thanks for taking the time to read and comment. xoxo

  11. Jo

    July 10, 2018 at 12:19 pm

    Thank you for this post. Mothers usually think of their family members first and put themselves last. I’m grateful that you’ve written this wonderful post to remind us that we need to look after ourselves well.

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 10, 2018 at 10:24 pm

      I cannot agree more!! You are so righttt!! Mothers REALLY need to have some ‘me’ time every now and then. I struggle with this at times, but my husband helps me a lot, so it’s easier now. Thanks for stopping by! xoxo

  12. Jen @ Jenron Designs

    July 10, 2018 at 2:18 pm

    Self care is a very big focus right now, and I believe it is so important. How can do any good for others, if we never fill our own cups. However, on the flip side of that coin. I am also see a disturbing amount of narcism developing from this trend as well. It is a slippery slope and balance truly is the key, you know what they say about too much of a good thing.

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 10, 2018 at 10:32 pm

      Wow, Jen! That was such a nice comment! Thanks a lot.
      You are right, but we still gotta do it cos we NEED it and we DESERVE it. Let them say whatever they want to…
      God bless! xoxo

  13. Gina Shirley

    July 10, 2018 at 5:39 pm

    Awesome ideas – I need to implement a few more of these in my daily life. Love and take care of oneself!

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 10, 2018 at 10:22 pm

      Thank you, Gina! I’m so happy to see you here on my blog. Really hope you liked it! Loads of love. xoxo

  14. Amber Myers

    July 10, 2018 at 7:50 pm

    Self care is SO important! I try to do a lot of these. In fact, I’m trying water right now. When I’m done with blog stuff, I plan on relaxing with a good book. Reading is one of my favorite things to do.

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 10, 2018 at 10:22 pm

      You are absolutely correct. I sometimes struggle with hydration but I have a few tricks which help me stay hydrated, and I’ll be sharing that soon!
      My routine of relaxing after blogging is to nap for a while, eat something, take a shower (Mandatory) and read something. It helps a lot!
      Thanks for stopping by! <3 🙂

  15. Patricia-Ann Que

    July 10, 2018 at 7:54 pm

    what a great list you got here! all are very important with our busy lifestyles these days!

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 10, 2018 at 10:20 pm

      Thank you so much! I really appreciate it. 🙂 God bless!!

  16. Tara

    July 10, 2018 at 9:01 pm

    I love a self-care blog. Thank you for sharing yours. Great quotes that you’ve put in, they fit really well.

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 10, 2018 at 10:19 pm

      Aww, Thank you so much Tara! It really means a lot! I’ll be uploading more tips for self-care, so stick around! 🙂

  17. Betzy Cuellar

    July 11, 2018 at 1:20 am

    This is a topic I believe moms should be more aware of. Most of the time, as moms we stop caring for ourselves.

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 11, 2018 at 4:28 am

      Exactly, they are so busy taking care of the family that they neglect themselves. This is a reminder for all the beautiful mommies out there! 🙂

      Lots of love!

  18. Niharika

    July 11, 2018 at 1:57 am

    All the pointers are so important!! Self-care is important because you really deserve it!! Great post

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 11, 2018 at 4:29 am

      Thank you so much for reading and commenting! I really appreciate it! xoxo

  19. Olivia

    July 11, 2018 at 2:48 am

    Such an amazing post! Self-care is absolutely crucial especially in a society where everything is so fast-paced. Thank you for sharing all these tips! x

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 11, 2018 at 4:29 am

      Thank you so much for taking the time to read and comment! It really means a lot! 🙂

  20. Sudipta Dev Chakraborti

    July 11, 2018 at 4:47 am

    This is a post which most women should read – we get so busy finding the perfect balance between work and life , we forget to take care of ourselves. One of my best ways of self care is giving Reiki healing to myself often (I am a Reiki Master).

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 11, 2018 at 5:07 am

      wow! that’s super awesome!!
      I especially wrote this post for those mommies who are busy taking care of their homes & kids but they forget themselves. I hope you liked it! 🙂 Thanks for stopping by! 🙂

  21. Sundeep Bhatia

    July 11, 2018 at 7:20 am

    I just stumbled upon this blog today and not regretting spending even a minute of my reading time.

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 11, 2018 at 10:52 pm

      OMG!! Sundeep, you made my day!! I just started this blog around 20 days ago and I’m already getting comments like this one from amazing people like you and I feel so lucky, I can’t even tell. THANKS A LOT! Stick around for more productive content! 🙂 God bless.

  22. Shana B

    July 11, 2018 at 8:54 am

    Self care is so important. Especially for mom’s who are always putting everyone ahead of themselves. It’s good to look after yourself.

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 11, 2018 at 10:50 pm

      Thanks a lot for reading and commenting, Shana!
      You are right, moms always put everyone else especially family, first and totally forget about themselves and that is why they need to have some ‘free’ time! 🙂 God bless!

  23. Emma Riley

    July 11, 2018 at 10:34 am

    These are great steps to have a perfect self care routine. It is so important for us most especially to us mothers to have have time to ourselves not because we don’t want to be with our love ones it is because we want to relieve our stress, relax and recharge. Thank you for sharing this tips with us.

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 11, 2018 at 10:49 pm

      Oh, Emma!! Thank you so much for stopping by and commenting!
      You’re absolutely correct and I couldn’t agree more! Take care of yourself! 🙂 xoxo

  24. Rosey

    July 12, 2018 at 12:24 am

    I have neglected myself for over a year. I’ve been happy and busy, but not taking direct care of me. Today, coincidentally, I noticed and took action to change that… 🙂

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 12, 2018 at 5:03 am

      Oh, I’m so happy you did that!! Loving and taking care of ourselves comes first, no matter what!
      God bless! xx

  25. Echo

    July 12, 2018 at 4:37 am

    I really like this article and agree with all of your points! I also love the steps that you laid out and am going to try and follow them! Self-care is hard for me.

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 12, 2018 at 4:59 am

      Hey, thanks for stopping by! I also struggled with self-care until I started a routine. Make and set up a routine and do it on weekly basis, maybe on a weekend or whenever you are free. After a few times, you’ll automatically develop the habit of doing it every now and then.
      God bless! xoxo

  26. Ayna Tanzeem

    July 12, 2018 at 7:18 am

    So motivational 👍 #selfcare #selflove

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 13, 2018 at 9:04 am

      Thank you, Ayna! I appreciate that. 🙂

  27. Jennifer L

    July 12, 2018 at 2:12 pm

    Self-care is so important to our wellbeing. I love giving myself pamper days to do a cardio, eat something delicious and just treat myself to something I want.

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 13, 2018 at 9:05 am

      You are right. Self-care is crucial. Take care of yourself. God bless. xx

  28. LavandaMichelle

    July 12, 2018 at 2:41 pm

    What a wonderful post! Self-care is super important. Thanks for sharing! 🙂

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 13, 2018 at 9:04 am

      I’m glad you liked it! 🙂 Lots of love.

  29. Amy

    July 12, 2018 at 3:37 pm

    Hi Rukh,
    I noticed that your 6 points are identical to the 6 points shared on Sidra’s blog post here http://sidra.me/practice-self-care/
    As a blogger who has had my own content lifted without attribution, I wanted to really graciously suggest that you should, at very least, credit & link Sidra’s article for the 6 main points you use, as it appears her post was published before yours. It doesn’t matter if you have changed/altered the text under the bullets, when you have clearly used someone else’s main points, you need to give attribution, even if you’re going to elaborate/specify new sub thoughts. If I am incorrect about this, and SHE has copied from YOU, then you may want to contact her about this problem. When this happened to me, I used a polite cease & desist letter to request that the copied content be removed (because in my case there was more direct copying) or proper attribution be given. Hope this is helpful. Best wishes to you on your blogging journey.

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 13, 2018 at 8:51 am

      Hi Amy!
      Thanks for teaching me this. I feel so bad I didn’t link the source, at first. But now, I did link the ACTUAL source. I didn’t copy from Sidra. I was searching for ideas for my bullet journal on Pinterest and I came across this image which I printed and used in my planner. Later on, when I wrote this article based on the printed document, I didn’t bother searching on Pinterest the original source which DEFINITELY IS MY FAULT! But now, I have searched and linked it to the original source. Thanks a lot! I have told the original creator about this too. 🙂
      Keep me updated if you ever find anything else wrong in my blog! I’d appreciate that!
      Loads of love,
      Rukh AZ.

  30. Leo T. Ly

    July 12, 2018 at 3:55 pm

    These six steps are a great reminder for me to take good care of ourselves. I often neglect most of the steps, but the reward step. I definitely need to do better on the other ones. One step at a time.

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 13, 2018 at 9:06 am

      Wow, You’re right! one step at a time. If you need any help I’m right here. Take care. God bless.

  31. Nicole

    July 13, 2018 at 3:17 pm

    Self care is always so mimportant for everybody. You did a great job at describing all of the steps. I’ll have to remember to take care of myself more often. Thanks for sharing!

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 14, 2018 at 12:12 am

      I’m thrilled that you liked the article! Always take good care of yourself and be your own priority! 🙂 xx

  32. christiana

    July 13, 2018 at 10:35 pm

    these are some really great self care ideas! its so important to take care of yourself, that’s something most people forget to do.

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 14, 2018 at 12:09 am

      You are so right! I’m glad you liked it! 🙂

  33. Yaroslava

    July 14, 2018 at 8:53 pm

    Yes, self-care is so important! This is a really great article, thanks for sharing 🙂

    1. Rukh AZ

      July 15, 2018 at 1:56 am

      I’m glad you liked it. Thanks for stopping by! xx

  34. AHK

    September 25, 2018 at 10:09 am

    Great article loved it!

  35. AHK

    September 25, 2018 at 10:10 am

    loved it!

    1. Rukh AZ

      October 5, 2018 at 5:51 am

      Thank you so much! Much appreciated 🙂

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